tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post5417544370841133640..comments2023-10-29T03:05:39.132-07:00Comments on Angela's World: Dear Future HusbandAngela Simmonshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04091700328205138527noreply@blogger.comBlogger50125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-24977748716294204552011-04-12T01:58:57.260-07:002011-04-12T01:58:57.260-07:00I will simply agree with @chillwillbey, but to add...I will simply agree with @chillwillbey, but to add another 2 cent Just keep GOD in any relationship or friendship that way you wouldn't be mislead. We youth tend to get caught up with goals, fun and being well in general that we forget everyone has a baggage of life come with before you meet them.. Just learn to know ppl you find interesting, and make sure they balance you for that will only make a PERFECT RELATIONSHIP, then marriage..<br /><br />@DOpeYemi.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-23051736523434076512011-01-04T22:37:05.479-08:002011-01-04T22:37:05.479-08:00That was so beautiful Angela! I love it! And i lov...That was so beautiful Angela! I love it! And i love that you are so open and so honest about you´r feelings! I really can say that i relate to that! I will pray for you to find the kind of love you´r heart desire! Just remeber..Good things come to those who wait;-) Lot´s of hugs from Fey in Sweden:-)Feyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08795550639885645974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-81223679321128933842010-12-31T06:00:45.482-08:002010-12-31T06:00:45.482-08:00I agree with "The Angry Independent".
A...I agree with "The Angry Independent".<br /><br />Also I'd like to say that you have to ask the Lord (I'm pretty sure you have done that already) to send you a husband (mention everything that you want in a guy) and let God take care of the rest. He knows our hearts and our deepest desires but we wont receive if we don't ask. When the time is right (and most importantly if its in His will) he will send you your husband when you least expect it. That's how it always happens. For right now just enjoy yourself (self love is the bomb) and saturate yourself in the love of Jesus. Just enjoy being in love with Him and don't concentrate so hard on finding love. Stop pondering on why past relationships didn't work. Obviously those guys weren't the right ones for you, it's not you. You are such a beautiful, intelligent, and successful young woman, you deserve so much better. You deserve to have a man of God, who will love you and will place you and the Lord in special place in his heart where no one else can dwell!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-87893935534491232482010-12-30T19:31:21.863-08:002010-12-30T19:31:21.863-08:00You won’t find what you’re looking for by dating r...You won’t find what you’re looking for by dating rappers or pro-athletes (the norm for so many young notable women of color). Heck that goes for the younger and older women - I just saw Vivica Fox showing off her latest “thug” companion on national television. Incredible. This is definitely the trend, although a horrible one. It sets a bad example for the everyday girls who look up to young women like you, Alicia Keys, Vivica Fox, etc etc etc.<br /><br />I assumed you would go in that same direction, especially with a family so immersed in the world of rap/hip hop. It’s tough because this is all you may know in terms of a blueprint. Although your father seems to be a good man and is not really the bad example I am pointing to. But most others from the rap world, with few exceptions, don’t represent the best options for husband/father. <br /><br />There are plenty of men out there who are smart, educated, grounded, gentlemen/family men. They may not be as exciting as the NFL or NBA guy, the celeb, or the rapper…and some may be a little nerdy (but still cool)…but the point is, they tend to make better men. You don’t want a guy who has the traits of the wild, playboy & badboy as a husband and potential father of your children anyway. Those are traits you want to avoid. There are messages sent to young black women everyday that tell them to date the badboy and that there is something wrong with dating an egg head. Black women are virtually programmed this way in fact. But It’s perfectly ok to go for the egg head, and for the sake of so-called “Black America” that message should be sent more often. Right now, there are too many women, especially women of color, laying down with men who were never going to be good men, or good fathers. <br /><br />You will of course have to look for that man…. You can’t just sit there. You will have to do a little work yourself…even if it is just positioning yourself in the places where these men are (hint…you won’t find him in the hip hop nightclub on Friday night). You may have to completely change your thinking on who that man could be and where to find him. Smart, decent men are often on college campuses, at book signings, nerd movies, jazz concerts, in the classroom, tech conventions, hobby groups, singles mixers, the coffee shop, volunteer program, grocery store, or just working their ordinary jobs.<br /><br />In closing, it will be interesting to see which way you go. I will make you a test case for my theory on women (I already know that the theory is true…and that it works, but I like to test it on occasion just for confirmation) lol. <br /><br /><br />Twitter: @Bryon592Brian https://www.blogger.com/profile/07872444863142531165noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-48890984775129704322010-12-30T16:58:36.486-08:002010-12-30T16:58:36.486-08:00This is a great post. =)
I can relate to this, you...This is a great post. =)<br />I can relate to this, you might of taken the words out of some of us women's hearts. I hope you find Prince Charming =)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13849754496089369981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-21630426069816010142010-12-30T16:57:27.031-08:002010-12-30T16:57:27.031-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13849754496089369981noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-23899854224614943212010-12-30T12:38:28.763-08:002010-12-30T12:38:28.763-08:00"now""now"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-40481360704034752282010-12-30T12:24:29.492-08:002010-12-30T12:24:29.492-08:00Thank you for this entry! It's tough for us gu...Thank you for this entry! It's tough for us guys too. It's reassuring to know that females who value male sincerity exist. <br /><br />We get knocked into the "bachelors" lifestyle. You are know my official celebrity crush lol!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-2364339692632218002010-12-29T11:51:01.618-08:002010-12-29T11:51:01.618-08:00That was an awesome post! It made me cry.That was an awesome post! It made me cry.Brandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15244091355354504471noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-19797047946321149232010-12-29T07:59:34.280-08:002010-12-29T07:59:34.280-08:00i love dis....its what i cud hav written. I hope u...i love dis....its what i cud hav written. I hope u dont mind me puttin it up on my blog? i'll make reference to u tho no worries..<br /><br />Awesome piece!Tunmamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04357341376576370105noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-39622976785421602402010-12-28T20:34:36.650-08:002010-12-28T20:34:36.650-08:00Robert,
Uhhh....REALLY? Why would you tell a young...Robert,<br />Uhhh....REALLY? Why would you tell a young lady such a thing? You may as well have said, Go out and band diff.dudes. You don't say anything like that to a young lady. Although I'm sure she is a mature young woman, this type of encouragement should not be brought forth. Just my opinion.......I like Lou's message better. Hey Rob...you should try something like that.J.Dunnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02070269681240681971noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-75163435912304807952010-12-28T20:24:04.332-08:002010-12-28T20:24:04.332-08:00I say this all the time to young ladies, and I kno...I say this all the time to young ladies, and I know that they know but it still needs to said. Your only 23, never feel this way about your future - relationship wise. He will come, and if he isn't coming fast enough than go to him.<br />Don't just sit around and wait as if your waiting for a bus, because before you know it you'll be in your mid 30's. give all kinds of men a chance - even the ones who don't make hundred's of thousands $ a year.Too many females always talk about just wanting a man who loves them unconditionally but if the man makes significantly less than them, then the relationship is over - or it never begins.<br />your a wealthy young woman in the public eye, which makes dating tough because of trust issues.Roberthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06120584889127846963noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-51605090996804206912010-12-28T20:02:36.208-08:002010-12-28T20:02:36.208-08:00Hey gorgeous just want to introduce myself .Im lou...Hey gorgeous just want to introduce myself .Im lou & I enjoyed reading ur blog! My day just brightened deep down in your heart your a sweetheart !! I love the way u praise GOD I love reading how u articulate GODS secret messages after church on sunday your testimonials are testiments u always give us a variety of positive energy :) !louhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07317928280606746871noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-3612012033013682402010-12-28T18:32:51.409-08:002010-12-28T18:32:51.409-08:00Angela, just to confirm your thoughts and feelings...Angela, just to confirm your thoughts and feelings...you will find him :) <br />you come from a great family, run by a GREAT man! you know what they say about majority of women, they look for a partner who share similar characteristics as their dad :)Think for Freehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05667976700513213829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-84191541068113395402010-12-28T17:47:16.168-08:002010-12-28T17:47:16.168-08:00OMG!!!! I love this we share the same heart :O)OMG!!!! I love this we share the same heart :O)Tashahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14889873191021844076noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-74895236739878854522010-12-28T17:32:24.978-08:002010-12-28T17:32:24.978-08:00That hit so close to home.....wow. SpeechlessThat hit so close to home.....wow. SpeechlessAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-75467097892838909822010-12-28T15:35:40.044-08:002010-12-28T15:35:40.044-08:00I love it hunni! I am in waiting mode as well, and...I love it hunni! I am in waiting mode as well, and in the bible it does say a man that findeth wife he findeth a good thing and obtain favor...I personally I am waiting on God to send him to me because I know it want be a mistake...I hope he finds u and sweep you completely off your feet! I am believing God with u... And when u get your prince I know mine is not to far away....Be blessed Lady!Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06584086900981317536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-56589319969603500482010-12-28T14:05:21.152-08:002010-12-28T14:05:21.152-08:00Diddo... Much love... Guys seem to run from us str...Diddo... Much love... Guys seem to run from us strong women these days... My oath is to teach my son better to know better than that!<br />Follow me @wrkhrd4itRitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05353957365266468796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-45552623793116034982010-12-28T13:12:07.611-08:002010-12-28T13:12:07.611-08:00Wow!!!That was amazing!!! On another note I hope u...Wow!!!That was amazing!!! On another note I hope u liked the flowers I sent u @ the Club(Havana Atl).<br /><br />Follow me @BMBGroup<br /><br />---One Luv---Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10485566563729257009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-8896463704355197862010-12-28T12:51:09.209-08:002010-12-28T12:51:09.209-08:00This left me speechless; beautifully written &...This left me speechless; beautifully written & quite reflective of my own life. Thank you for sharing. ;-)Miz Phttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12329435166201469433noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-82988981222797638552010-12-28T12:12:01.719-08:002010-12-28T12:12:01.719-08:00wow!! that was beautiful i love it! im going thoug...wow!! that was beautiful i love it! im going though the same thing right now im 20 years old and still havent had a real relationship with a man (not a boy a man) lol im saving myself for my future husband. im tryin to put God first in eveything i do cause with out him nothings good. thank u for sharing that with us love ya and God bless :)brianna_whitehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04973376068176937331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-26291222948508378452010-12-28T09:53:49.252-08:002010-12-28T09:53:49.252-08:00'He who finds a wife finds a good thing and ob...'He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord' PROVERBS 18:22<br />Hey Ang! Remain in a place to be found for "he" is coming to get you girlfriend! Be courageous. Be confident. Be fierce. Be secure. Be prayerful. Be watchful. Be wise. Be diligent. Be U.<br />And GOD will give "him" favor to compliment everything about you! Be Blessed :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-66435150160114889482010-12-28T09:04:35.667-08:002010-12-28T09:04:35.667-08:00Oh Angela I love you so. I Promise you will find a...Oh Angela I love you so. I Promise you will find a man tho. Besides teyana Taylor you are one of biggest role models. I would love it if you can be my mentor. We are so much alike the only difference is that youve reached for the stars and was able to grab one & although, you may not be at the height of success you'd like to reach yet ; but you've reached a pinnacle in life that I'm trying to reach &im still in highschool. I wish that you can mentor me in my last year of highschool nxt year. xoxo Nicole.xoxonicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04824665714931728875noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-18386157334012116122010-12-28T08:28:57.106-08:002010-12-28T08:28:57.106-08:00I'm soo happy that your doing this! It shows m...I'm soo happy that your doing this! It shows me that when I get famous, I don't have to hide behind sunglasses and a hat. I can be open and share what I feel. I love your opened mind and I cant wait to read more. May GOD continue to bless that beautiful heart <3Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05747902600322947604noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1331419061858377572.post-90852669623094695772010-12-28T08:06:58.691-08:002010-12-28T08:06:58.691-08:00Wow Angela, thank you for sharing such truthful wo...Wow Angela, thank you for sharing such truthful words that truly express how hundreds of women, including myself feel! Every word I read touched me so deeply; I felt as if you had read my thoughts on love.. So thank you for putting it in words and sharing that piece with all of us!JoJanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12764785199105981507noreply@blogger.com